《8 Steps to Help You Stop Overthinking Everything》3. Stop Your Thoughts in The Moment and Practice Being Present
Advertisement
In the heat of overthinking, stop and say:
"No. I'm not going to have these thoughts right now. I'm not going to give in."
Bring your attention to where you are here and now.
Breathe. Focus. Where are you? What do you feel? What's on your mind? What's stressing you out?
Open your journal and write down your thoughts. Research shows that the habit of writing what we feel helps us with metacognitive thinking.
Metacognition is "thinking about one's thinking", or in simpler terms, it's our "awareness of our own thoughts." That's why you become more aware of your thoughts and what they're trying to tell you when you write them down.
The goal is to become more aware and remove yourself from the "being" of your thoughts. You want to observe your thoughts so you can understand what they are and why you're feeling them.
Being present isn't easy. It requires practice. But whenever you notice your mind ruminating about the past or wandering into the future, try to bring it back to this moment and think:
"The past doesn't matter. The future is out of my reach. All I have in my control is this present moment. So I will stop thinking about the past or the present. I will only think about the here and now."Daily rituals like journaling ,meditation or writing one line per day help you retain control over your mind so that you can stay in the present and practice living in the moment. They also reduce stress, improve focus, and increase self-awareness.
This practice will be difficult in the beginning, but as with anything, in due time, it will begin to transform your life and come more naturally. Above all, higher awareness will help you reduce your overthinking.
Advertisement
- In Serial17 Chapters
A World Reborn
Tell me do you live so that you can enjoy life or do you live so that you can escape into another world of books, movies and games? There is something fundamentally wrong with a world if its inhabitants have to escape it by means of fantasy. However, what if reality became fantasy and your actions have consequences, would you still like it? follow John as he adventures through perilous dangers, deceit and death in this reborn world. This is my first novel, so please be gentle with me. There might or might not be sexual content, depending if people want it, but I still put up the warning for now.
8 71 - In Serial8 Chapters
Captain Stellon
A pilot in the Interplanetary Era, it was never Captain Stellon's intention to get caught up in the big questions of his time. But artificial systems and human agents have a worrying habit of finding him useful in their efforts to shape events. Kaitar, for example, an astrobiologist fixated on a return to Earth, would never have been chosen for him by a dating algorithm. They're just galaxies apart in everything they say and do. Yet their destinies get strangely entangled. And if that weren't enough, A.S. itself decides our young, hapless hero is just the person it needs for a spot of undercover work...
8 72 - In Serial6 Chapters
Princess Aria and the Gem of immortality
This is the story of Brynhilde Von Aria who lost her parents at an early age and has lived on her own for a very long time. she one day finds out there is gem of power that can help here so sets out to find. along the way finds friends to help her in her search. the tale of princess Aria starts here.
8 109 - In Serial8 Chapters
Sand Girls
In a world where the oceans have dried up into dune seas and the atmosphered is all screwed up, there are two strange girls travelling across the desert in a half-rusted tank. Let's restart the Wild West, Iron Style.
8 69 - In Serial14 Chapters
HERO OF DEMONS (HOD)
Kris is an average 13 year old otaku. He is made fun of because of both his name and hobby. But after being transported into a different world that an otaku would dream of, things are looking up. Soon after, being wronged, felled, and rescued by the race most discriminated, now on a quest for revenge, rescuing, food, women, and most of all: fun. He and his best friend our now the Heroes..... Of the Demons.
8 132 - In Serial17 Chapters
How To Protect Your Dragon (Hiccup x Reader 3)
** COMPLETED **Ah, Berk.Located in the middle of nowhere, the people aren't too normal, and, oh yes, Dragons! Only... This island is getting a little too crowded... Not only that, but the darkest threat Berk has ever faced looms in the distance, hunting Toothless and (D/N). Not only that, but now the last of the Light Fury and Sonic Angels have appeared! To find a safe Haven for their dragons, Hiccup and (Y/N) must search for the ancient legend, The Hidden World. In this final chapter of their story, they will find their destinies, fighting to protect everything they've loved for years. Nothing can ever train you to let go. ...Read the first two stories first if you haven't ❤❤(I don't own How To Train Your Dragon 3! Or the other movies! They are Dreamworks. I only own some images I create!)
8 99

