baizhu

oh?

hello to you too my dearest brother

shut the fuck up

anyways

i have a question

😐

idk if i want to answer that now

you've had a gf or wtvr before right

ya i have

we broke up though

why?

so let's say hypothetically

you like this girl

and one day she bumps into her ex and they start catching up or wtvr

and she just kinda forgets ab ur presence

and then you're just feeling some type of way because you're scared you're going to get replaced by him

all hypothetical ofc

how would u handle the situation

r u fr

the first thing u say to me after months is this bs

honestly

just leave her be w that guy

um why

i'm not gonna just

give up on her

yeah but isn't it obvious how she forgot ab you while she was w him

she's happier with the other guy

you aren't really good at giving advice baizhu 😭

i like her,, she likes me

so?

how are you so sure she likes you

you're even hesitant ab it

if you're doubting her you obviously aren't sure about her feelings back

she could replace you w him any day

you sound delusional

mfker

at least i've had a gf before

didn't she break up w you?

clearly i know why now

plus i nvr even met her before so how would i know she actually existed

mmm i'm sure you've met her before

many times actually

wdym i never did 😭

that's what you think

anyway back to the topic

do you have any questions

i mean yeah???

you're telling me to leave her cuz she'd be happier w the guy but they just met again today so u really can't infer much from that

i get it,, they met again today

but think of what it's going to be like in the future

she seems happy w him rn and she wouldn't replace you but think ab what it's going to be like i'm the future

she could replace u with that guy any time she wanted to

um

besides, it'll hurt more if you stay rn and they get closer

it's better to leave asap than wait it out until she leaves you

whyre you acting like she's going to 100% leave me

are you that dense?

???? wdym

omfg

listen to me

she seemed rly happy meeting him today right?

yeah

imagine what it's going to be like in the long run

she's going to be happier with him

you've probably never seen her that happy with you, have you?

not that i remember

exactly. my point exactly

she already seems happier without you and the fact she didn't even notice you leave or acknowledge you really sets my point

if you distance yourself from her now, it'd be better for you and for her

i don't get it

why would i want to leave her

you're going to get hurt when the day comes she replaces you with him

you're going to be devastated or smt when you realize she was better off w him the whole entire time

you're trying to make it work but it won't ever work because she already likes smn else

ah

i see what u mean now

mm the more i think about it the more you make sense

she did seem rlly happy with him

but her best friend who knows her rly well told me i shouldn't worry

her bsf may know her well but doesn't know her completely

they could be completely wrong

you gotta trust ur head instead of other people

i mean i guess

i'll give it another few days and if she rly does seem happier with the guy i guess i'll distance myself

idk

it's weird and confusing

i get that you don't want to give up on her

but the longer you wait the more you'll hurt

trust me

what if you're trying to play w me rn

why would i?

i have no reason to lie to you

what would i even gain from this

i'm your brother ffs i'm trying to help you

ig you're right

i'm gonna go now

ya ya just don't go running back to her

mm yeah