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No one likes abortion, even the mom, but most woman who want an abortion it's because they need one, they know that they won't be able to take care of it, give it a home, they don't have insurance, enough money, enough support or are too young...

Plus an abortion hurts, so it's never ideal ...

All a woman wants is a choice and the support of that choice.

If they had the government or someone to help them out with finances and to help the child grow in a safe environment then things would be much easier. But the laws and the system make it impossible to receive support.

Maybe the mom wants to open their kid for adoption, but the whole program to adopt is too complicated and confusing and takes forever for the waiting parents. Sometimes the mom's don't want to go through that beacause they don't know if in the end they can be sure that the kid is being given a safe home, they want the kid to go through a happy life, but knows that she can't give it them....

Most woman who want an abortion it's because they're in a bad situation, maybe the man left her, or she got sexually assaulted, has a very unsafe home life, knows that her parents won't support and people will judge and maybe... She just wants to continue just being a kid.

And making a when you are a is just ridiculous and messed up...

So, all this goes to say is that what the government is doing is just wanting to control women, putting all the balme on women and all the responsibilities while the guy is usually set free from all these problems and questions.

The blame goes for the woman "You shouldn't have had sex"

"You should know the consequences and go through with it"

So not only does she HAVE to make a child, and raise it, but be blamed and attacked, looked down on when she should be praised like any other mother for going through the process of making a child. Even if she didn't decide to make the child, she's still strong, it's hard to make such a scary decision and it hurts the body.

This thing of blaming a woman needs to stop and pro choice is what that is suggesting, we're not against life we're against controlling the woman's decision and against judging it.

All of this is happening to the woman while the man gets no fault but the thing is, it to make a child, so why do we as women have to deal with the burden and not both? ...

Would it be different if men were to get pregnant and abort it....would they receive support?

Be praised and loved even with this scary thing happening to them?

They wouldn't be told "You shouldn't have had sex"

But a woman is told that: she shouldn't have had sex.

BUT.... she should be able to explore her sexuality, just like a man is...

One mistake during intercorse is very much possible but that is not to blame the woman for having sex ...

No, we need to teach safe sex, how to safely interact with one another, talk about the possible consequences and the possible pros.

To know if they're ready for such a big step in a relationship and to not be afraid of talking about SEX!

There, Sex! Sex, Sex!

Stop making it such a pressured thing and making it a secret....

Adults not allowing their kids to understand what's going on with their hormones and being told it's not okay to feel sexual... (This only causes them to want to explore it more and to go against their parents, human nature thing to go against what you're told not to do)

Teenagers calling names like slut and prude to encourage sex when one might not be ready.....

All of this needs to stop!

Either way, the woman gets blamed, for being experienced, not being experienced, making the decision to abort, or making the decision to take care a baby on her own..

We need more support and security in our system for women.... Stop blaming, stop controlling, causing pain for women and just accept that not all women want to have a child yet still want to be sexually active...

If you are pro life, the woman IS life, a living person that is going through so much, so many changes in her life, with or without being pregnant and we need to start loving and respecting her instead of using our beliefs as an excuse to judge and hurt her.... We need to realize that a woman is living and all she needs right now is support, love and respect ❣️

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You are loved ❤️

You are beautiful ❤️

Strong, special and will be heard,... Maybe it's not happening right now, but I know, with trust, our day will come❣️

We will be seen! We will be heard!

So for now, maybe the government doesn't believe or hear us... But I DO!

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You are loved ❤️