So, I like two guys. One goes to my school and he's very smart and kind and funny and sporty and I really like his personality, but he's very shy so he very rarely sparks up a conversation with me, and I sometimes try to talk to him. This is because throughout the school year I was convinced we had something. From the moment we met he joked around with me and all the other signs of him liking me.

Long story short, we went through phases of being kinda close, like acquaintances or maybe friends to not even talking at all and I thought it was just cuz he was shy. The end of the year comes around and I asked my friend to ask him if he liked me. Someone else ended up asking him by accident (IDK even how but it failed) and so my crush said no. It really screwed it up cuz it was so awkward but the school year ended like that.

It's summer and I haven't seen him so it's like I'm distancing myself to try and get over him, but I'm fine with liking him.

Now, on the other hand, I am in a year round sport (taekwondo) and the guy in my class is a rank higher than me, but he is only a year older than me and, oh my goodness he is so good looking. So we talk and stuff (cuz we have to) but I'm always so socially awkward and intimidated by him but he's still friendly to me and I'm still friendly to him and it's cool.

He high fives me asks me random questions and I honestly don't think it's cuz he has feelings for me it's just his personality. But like I said he's so good looking and he's nice to me.

I'm not asking for help with choosing a crush, because I'm fine with liking both of them (although since the one from taekwondo is the only one I talk to I'm currently crushing on him more) but I feel like all my chances with both of them have been ruined.

My plan is to basically go for the one from my school when the year starts since I have better chances but this guy from the sport... He's just so cute although I know I have no chances with him.

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Well I'm just going to be my regular lame self with my regular lame remarks and basically repeat myself, but oh well. Here it goes.

I know you said you'd more likely try something with the boy from your school but honestly my gut says you go for the one from your taekwondo classes. I don't why, I guess it's because you have no "history" with him, as in you haven't known him quite that long, and yeah, maybe because you seem to be liking him more.

I don't know what to say about the high fives though. It might be something, or it might just be the way he acts around people. Did you see him act that way with other people? Does he act the same around guys?

If the answer is yes then he's more likely just friendly in general. If it seems like he's that way more around you, then it might be a sign that he likes you.

As for the boy from your school, I'm not sure what to say. I don't know what was that thing with him saying he doesn't like you to your friends, because quite frankly it doesn't make that much of a difference. Even if he did like you, chances are he's not going to admit that to your friends so they can blurt it out to you.

And still, maybe your intuition was right. Maybe he did like you and it was just a shy thing going on there. I don't know. It could go either way.

I think you should go for it too, but since you like two guys, I'm going to repeat myself as well and say that you should try to spend more time with each of them and see which guy would really be good for you.

Don't let yourself get fooled by their appearances. I know you think that guy fron taekwondo is cute, but do you like his personality? Would you really see yourself with him? I know you don't exactly know him, so that's what I'm saying. Talk to him more. Hang out with. That way it will be easier to establish what kind of person he really is.

Same thing applies to the guy from your school. Ask yourself the same questions and then you'll be able to decide which one of these two guys is better for you - the guy you actually want to be with it.

And then you can take things to the next level, and that way you'll know you made the right decision.

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