Okay, so, there's guy who I like and we are best friends. But he has a girlfriend whom he loves, so I'm slowly loosing feelings for him. Then there's another guy who my best friend liked, but she no longer likes him. I also have another friend who likes him, and I think I'm also starting to like him.

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Well I think your situation is pretty clear here. You're losing feelings for your crush and starting to develop new ones for another boy. At least, that seems to be the case. Which is a really good thing, considering the fact that your crush is in what sounds like a committed relationship.

If you want to know for sure if you're liking this new guy, you should pay attention to what you're feeling whenever you're around him.

Obviously , but there will be a few more subtle signs as well.

(Not that people check their pupils like they check their phone, but still.)

If the answer is yes to most of these, than you clearly feel something for this guy. And chances are you already knew this, in which case I apologise for my lack of advice in this chapter.

Also, if your friend is also liking the same guy as you, you should really be careful about that since these things can tear up a friendship as soon as you say old cheese.

Either one of you backs up, or you both give up on him. There's also a third choice, which also happened once with me and my best friend, and that is letting him make his own choice, but that's risky, too. If he chooses her you might not feel so good about that. Which may also lead to you distancing yourself from your friend. And the same thing may happen in case he chooses you.

In my case he chose neither of us so our friendship remained intact. So it's better to talk these things out now with her, before things get messy and there's no undoing them.

: I think you should decide exactly how are you feeling before you make any action. Are you sure you're moving on from your crush? Do you really like this new guy?

Maybe you should take some time to clear your head and realize what you really want. I think that's the best decision for you right now.

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This was it with the advice for this chapter. I hope we covered everything, and I really, really hope this was helpful to you. I wish you all the best with everything and keep us posted with your crush situation!

Cheers!