《Crush Advice》4. You are beautiful. Say it.

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I really liked this guy for almost two years, and sometimes I feel like he likes me too. But the problem is, he liked this girl before and I think that he hasn't really moved on from her completely, 'cause I've seen the way they looked at each other, and it really broke me.

I often to compare myself to her, she's really beautiful and smart, unlike me. I'm just an average girl whose grades are not as high as hers and because of that, I have been thinking that I'm just not good enough.

I'm really tired of this feeling and I really want it to go away. I tried to just forget about him and let them be happy together... But it's too hard. I see him like every single day, and the fact that he's been in the same class as me for two years is not helping either.

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To be honest, I know one hundred per cent how you're feeling. This is the story I think we all might have gone through at some point in our lives, but it's really important to know how to escape a situation as draining as this one.

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To any girl, for that matter. Now I know this can be extremely hard sometimes, I've been there myself and yeah, there are times when you just can't stop noticing how "perfect" that other person seems and just how "imperfect" you are. But no. Stop it. Right now. Because nobody's perfect. You hear this sentence everywhere, in every song and movie out there, but God, is it true.

You must realize that beauty is an incredibily subjective matter. Just as a an orange can be just a fruit to you, it can be the most unbeliaveble frickin' thing in the world for someone else! Furthemore, beauty is just a psychological thing taking place inside our brains. If you think you're beautiful, then dammit, you are.

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Now, back to your crush. It seems to me like since he broke up with your girlfriend, .

They did break up for a reason, after all, so why not try to see how he really feels about you? You're saying he did seem interested in you at some point. Maybe he did, and it wasn't just in your head.

, the other advisor here says that maybe you could message him. Maybe start with a school related topic (take advantage of the whole being classmates thing) and see how he responds. If he continues talking to you, asking more question and other things like that, try and keep the conversation alive for as long as possible. If it's still going well, bring up the "feelings" subject. See how's he's been handling the break-up. There's no reason for you not to try and comfort him, right?

Keep this up and try to talk more with him. You never know where things might be heading! :)

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This was our advice for you, and please keep us updated on your crush situation. We wish you good luck! And remember, you are beautiful!

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