This person's ex used to manipulate them for sexual favors. This person broke up with him, but he still asked for nudes.

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I would definitely not get back with this guy. If all he did when you were together was guilt trip you into doing sexual favours for him, then you do not need him. I admire your strength to not give into him—please keep that going! What guy in his right mind would go to you (his ex) for nudes because his current girlfriend won't send them? That's such a ridiculous idea. I'm thoroughly confused. I wish he'd stopped at that, but he took it one step further and asked your best friend for nudes as well?! Hon, if he can't wait for you or respect you or your wishes, then he's not right for you—simple as that. You deserve a guy who will listen to you and not push you into doing things you're not comfortable with. And trust me, I get where you're coming from when you say you still love him. That's normal. Love him, but don't take him back. This guy is bringing suicide into the situation as a poor attempt to get laid. You don't need that kind of drama in your life; no one does!

On behalf of the team, we truly wish you the very best with a guy who will love you unconditionally!

Love,

The Advice Column Team