This person feels different because she doesn't do the things people her age do.

Answered Submission

Hello, Sweety. :)

It's totally alright to be the person who doesn't do all the things you mentioned. It's okay if you don't have a crush, don't go partying, or don't go to sleepovers. Who said you HAVE to? Should you be worried that you aren't like them, or should you feel proud that you are different? Look at your fingers; do they all look alike? No. Just because you don't do what other people do or have feelings like they do, that doesn't mean you are not a human—or a girl. We all grow at a different pace. One day, when the time is right, you will be able to feel those things. But, for now, work on yourself.

Keep all the tension aside, and be the girl you want to be. In a world of people who are blindly following others' actions calling it a "trend," be a girl who is unique enough to stand out. And this is not just for you; this is for every girl out there. Now, smile, and do what you love to do.

Stay happy!

The Advice Column Team