This person wants to know whether they should end their relationship or not.

Hello,

I'm sorry to hear about where the relationship is heading. It's not often an easy decision to make when it comes to ending it. Unfortunately though, sometimes that's just what needs to happen.

People "click" all the time, but over time that connection can dwindle. It doesn't mean either of you are bad people, or that you didn't try hard enough. Sometimes that's just how it goes. It doesn't make you a bad person to want out of a relationship that isn't working anymore. Sweetheart, I think the best course of action for you would be to break up with her. If you're thinking about seeing other people, that means it's time to go. The best thing to do is be honest with yourself and with your partner about this. I'm sure she'd rather know how you feel even if it hurts her than to find out through someone else or an event. It's better to be truthful with your partner than to lie and stay when you don't want to. At that point, you're wasting both of your times. I hope this helps, love.

Stay strong,

The Advice Column Team