So well this book is awesome...!!

So I like my neighbour and I send him message on fb that I like him. And later on his mom and sister read everything. Now I am confused. He ignores me in front of everyone but when alone he talks to me like before. I have a feeling that his mom told him to stop talking from me. Yesterday we met in lift. So there we were wishing each other like how we used to do in childhood. Then he opened door for me. I am not sure whether he too likes me or considers me in friend zone. Please help.

~Desperateforever

Dear Desperate forever,

The best way to find out what's going on with your neighbor/crush is to ask him. Ask him how he feels and see if his feelings match yours.

If they don't then guess what, that's okay.

Maybe you could invite him over and just hangout. Then just ask. "Hey so I like you a lot, and you know that I do...so how do you feel about me?" Or you could use different words. But that's what I would say.

Hope it works out

-R x