I have an update on my life do u think u could help?

Ok I'm still friends with the guy that I had a crush on that knows and he's my best friend but know I have another problem.

I've got a boyfriend(yay finally!)and we were gonna meet up in Friday but he's moving to a different school that's further away so he has to stay there through the week.Well he's kinda enemies with my best friend you know the

guy that knows that I have a crush on him.We text and stuff but I really want to see him and I can't deal with it.I need help and I'm getting hurt a lot by this person how do I stand up to them?I need a lot of help.

From lost teenager.

Dear Lost Teenager,

I'm always here to help, even if it's not immediately.

I understand the whole 'wanting something but it could hurt you' thing.

You need to consider your own feelings when it comes to situations that could leave you getting hurt. I know I say to never regret anything in life and blah blah blah, but you have to think about how this can effect you in the future.

When it comes to standing up to someone, you have to be 100% honest.

Honesty is the best Policy

If you don't let someone know that there is a problem, then they can't help fix it. You need to be straightforward and don't beat around the bush.

If your boyfriend and best friend are enemies, you need to look at things from both of their perspectives. That way you can understand them better and see things like they see them.

If you want to see your boyfriend, tell him. You can talk to him about it and possibly make a set day and time that you two can spend time together.

If you need anything else contact me.

-R