《Wattpad Block Party - Summer Edition IV》tiara14100 Presents: My Writing Struggles and How I Overcome the Hate
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Hey everyone, it's me again! I hope each one of you is doing good today. Before i start all of this, i want to tell you all that YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL. DON'T LET PEOPLE STOP YOU FROM DOING WHAT YOU WANT.
So, if you have read my books, you know i had first started writing when i was 13. My first book, 'You Are Mine' (you can find it on my profile) became popular in a short span of time.
It hit 10k followers in 6-7 months. I was really happy with the quick success. But when you get success you also have a lot of pressure upon yourself. I was in 8th grade when i first started getting hate comments.
People started accusing me of stealing other author's ideas and content. Yes, i do admit, the first/unedited draft wasn't the greatest. Its ending was similar to 'Stole My Heart'.
The amount of hate i received was so bad that there was a moment where i stopped getting sleep at night. I didn't feel like eating anything.
But then eventually, i started muting the haters and contacted the author of 'Stole My Heart'. We had a conversation and i changed the ending a little.
But, the hate still didn't stop. There were so many hate comments in the comments section and the things at home were not great either. My grades started going down which didn't help anything.
My elder sister, my friends and all of my wattpad supporters were the ones that kept me really going and motivated me a lot during this whole scenario.
All the supporters showed me their love and then what i learned at the end was that haters don't do anything except for bringing you down.
Your success kills them. When someone gives you hate, all you should do is to ignore them and kill them with your success.
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Their hate never lowered my followers, votes or views.
When my stupid self learned all this, i started to focus more on the positive side of everything.
I re read my book and found out that it really wasn't a great work. I had first edited 'Mine Forever' (the sequel of 'You Are Mine') and currently i am rewriting 'You Are Mine'.
At the end, i want to tell everyone that you shouldn't let your haters get you. Also, to help people dealing with hate, here are my tips:
IGNORE IGNORE IGNORE; that's all you gotta do. People say what they want to and you should ignore their negative comments/remarks.
WIPE OUT ALL OF THE NEGATIVE PEOPLE: seriously, do it. Distance yourself from the people who make you feel worthless. Be with people who make you feel good and important.
MUTE OR BLOCK THEM: this is the most important step. It helped me A LOT.
DO WHAT MAKES YOU FEEL GOOD: i don't need to elaborate here. It's simple and important.
KILL THEM WITH SUCCESS: or you can take a bat, name it success and beat the shit outta them.
And the final step.....
6) LOVE YOURSELF: I had read it somewhere that when you start loving your body, you don't get affected by what others say about you. I have some lines for ever person out there...i found it on Pinterest.
LOVE YOUR BODY.
Look at your hands; they have pet so many cute animals and dried so many of your tears.
Look at your feet; they have walked you to some of your favorite places and walked you away from the bad ones.
Look at your belly; think of the days when its been full and warm with your favorite foods.
Look at your legs; they have held you up when you thought you weren't strong enough to stand.
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Look at your eyes; they have seen so many beautiful places and people.
Look at your mouth; it has told so many people that you love them.
Your body has been there with you since day 1; love it, it loves you.
These lines have made me learn how to love myself and i hope it helps you all too.
Others don't mean anything. There are thousands of people who love you. I love you. And feel free to contact me when you want to.
Also, it would be awesome if you check out my profile, read my books and chuck a follow.
Much love,
Tiara
Snapchat: tiara14100
Oh, one last thing....
It was DAVE FRANCO, i just couldn't help it.
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