You need to blow their mind.

Aries needs a constant source of intellectual stimulation, and they will be hard to find happiness with someone they don't think is just a little bit smarter and wiser than them. Aries loves to be leaders, but they are also drawn to people who are also leaders. If you want to win over an Aries, you have to be able to teach them something or show them a way of like they're never known before.