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I'm Mia and I am a lesbian. I always knew that if I fell in love with someone, the last thing I would worry about would be their gender. Being loose with my own gender, I just didn't care.

Having grown up in a very welcoming city, I've never thought badly of it. I found that I am more attracted to feminine people more than masculine people and that grew and grew until I realized that I wasn't attracted to any masculine people at all. At first I was afraid to come out. My parents had openly expressed that although they didn't mind the gay "lifestyle" they didn't want me to be gay. I was too scared to come out as a lesbian, so I came out as bisexual first. They didn't get angry and they told me that they love me no matter what, but on several encounters they've told me that it's probably just a phase. I don't really care because one day I will move away from them and they will choose to accept me or never see me again. I'm an only child, so I think they will pick the first option.