You can feel lonely in a crowd and fulfilled in solitude. Whatever the case may be, the essential thing to remember is that we must keep our balance. To feel centered when things around us begin to collapse and not resemble our surroundings. Everything we ever require is within us, so one should not get perturbed by the silly 'nitty gritties' of life. One should aim to be like an anchor in the storm, similar to a rock that holds its own against a frothing angry river. To be a badass every single day as you slay the demon that messes with your Chi.