Yahoo Messenger: 21 May 2001 09:56 PM

Subject: people say the prime of life starts at 35

julietscity: hahaahah...you are there

romeobanglore: haha...you still looking at sex pics????

julietscity: no... searching for jobs...

julietscity: I just come in

romeobanglore: hmmm...I came back now from cricket

julietscity: I know...6:30 your time after cricket

romeobanglore: ok... you look for jobs...I will play games here for 20 minutes

julietscity: hmmm....ok

romeobanglore: yes

romeobanglore: are you there????????

julietscity: yes

julietscity: connecting problems?

romeobanglore: yes, I will leave for the gym...I can't disturb you now

julietscity: you did not disturb me

julietscity: I've been searching all day ... I just don't know how to change my new job selection

romeobanglore: ok

julietscity: become a secretary and wait for the right employer or ... make a choice of any job as long as it makes money

romeobanglore: Do you have many offers on your websites??

romeobanglore: hey...doing any job it is a risk also

julietscity: there are many offers on the website... all are secretaries engaged in trade business... that is a job I gave up 10 years ago, I don't have that experience myself

julietscity: risk?

julietscity: The only risk is ... the salary is less, I have to learn from scratch in any new field of work

romeobanglore: it's ok for trade also... now the need is to find a job somehow

romeobanglore: yes... you are inexperienced in business... that is a big risk

julietscity: become a class tutor in cram school for high school students

romeobanglore: it's a less paying job, right?

julietscity: yes... if you only consider having any job first

romeobanglore: I would suggest not to wait too long! you hate waiting... hahaha

romeobanglore: hmmm... what you need is a job now

julietscity: I hated being a secretary ten years ago, writing letters and faxing to machines all day ... unless the trading company is my own...

julietscity: the money I have now is enough to keep me waiting ... these days I just don't understand ... "Why me?"

romeobanglore: "why me" means?

julietscity: ohh... hmmm... that's another problem...leave it

romeobanglore: you see...money is not that enough...you have to pay insurance, interest to bank...and so many things like that

julietscity: I keep thinking that something must be wrong... I know... in my life...

julietscity: I just don't know how to prevent it... Nothing good happens around me...

romeobanglore: see...you again think like this

julietscity: and...you know, on Sunday, I mentioned the intentions about age...

romeobanglore: yes

romeobanglore: see your life as I say...

romeobanglore: you have got a well-paying job in the committee

romeobanglore: you were respected by your colleagues

romeobanglore: you made enough money to invest in many things

julietscity: because... now you are 25 years old... five years later... you will treat all this as an experience... everything ...

julietscity: and remember not to do it again ... but when you are young ... you can say so ... but when you are over 30 ... there are no other 5 years to make mistakes, accumulate experience or opportunity to think again

romeobanglore: yes...maybe

romeobanglore: no... everyone over 20 thinks that they are too old...people say the prime of life starts at 35

julietscity: So ... before 30 years old ... you can play around and test a lot of opportunities ... that's why you now feel that everything is fine or curious about everything

julietscity: If life starts at 35 ... then you still have 10 years of job testing and playing time

romeobanglore: nonono...don't talk like this...you speak like a grandmother!!!

julietscity: ahhaha...grandma, yes...

julietscity: leave it

romeobanglore: yes

romeobanglore: hmmm

romeobanglore: honey...one thing...don't be so hard on yourself...you hurt yourself by thinking that your life was not good...

romeobanglore: do you think I am too young????

romeobanglore: I don't think so!!!

julietscity: YES...

julietscity: YOU ARE

romeobanglore: of course not!!!

julietscity: So many things are like a life experiment for you ... because it is an experience that you must satisfy while you are young

julietscity: when you are 30 years old and then look back at yourself... you would say that... like an old grandpa, feel sadder about life

romeobanglore: I am old enough to understand the seriousness of things

julietscity: hey...you must leave

julietscity: that's enough for today

romeobanglore: of course not...you do so because you never open your heart to anyone...maybe only me...but me, you consider me too young and don't believe in my words

romeobanglore: hmmm

julietscity: I just see what will happen to everyone in the future ... this is the rule...

julietscity: Law of the universe or law of nature?...

romeobanglore: you think of the things in a negative way!

romeobanglore: if a glass is half full of water, we can view it in 2 ways

romeobanglore: one can say "half of the glass is empty"

romeobanglore: another one can say "half of the glass is full"

julietscity: I would say... "half is enough"!!!

julietscity: but for me... there is always NO WATER in my glass

romeobanglore: it's different you know

romeobanglore: see...it's the way you think...

romeobanglore: you are so much lucky than many many persons in the world

romeobanglore: half of the world does not have a house to live in

romeobanglore: you have a house

romeobanglore: soooo many people die of hunger...you have great food

julietscity: I won't compare people who are not in the same condition as me ... that's not right

romeobanglore: sooo many people live without an extra pair of the dress...you have so many clothes

romeobanglore: SEE...now you say you are in a better condition than many people

romeobanglore: then...think of your "condition"!!! the condition itself is the answer to your question

julietscity: we can't compare results under different conditions... this is not right...

romeobanglore: you said about luck...you said you've not been lucky...but then how do you explain all these????

julietscity: our relationship? Do you think it's a stroke of luck?

julietscity: in a way, the experiments in the test period are lucky ... but in the future ... this is not

romeobanglore: I didn't mean our relationship...I meant your position

romeobanglore: you are well educated and eligible for a well-paid job

romeobanglore: you have a family there...

romeobanglore: you have friends...you are in many ways lucky

Yahoo! Messenger: romeobanglore has logged back in. (2001/5/21 at PM 09:51)

julietscity: not only I have it, but also many people

romeobanglore: hahaha...see...now you say luck is not an important thing, right?

romeobanglore: yes...many others also may have it... but that does not mean that you are unlucky!

julietscity: I am asking ... why am I out of luck now

romeobanglore: you are unique in your character...many people do not have a powerful character...you have it

romeobanglore: you know... you declined the job offer from the committee recently, even if you were looking for a job....so many people have taken that offer...you have character

julietscity: you have to leave ... I don't want you to speed up to the gym or bike too fast and get injured on the way

romeobanglore: hey!!!! I explained for the whole 30 minutes...you are lucky also

romeobanglore: but one can't expect everything to be smooth...some people have it so...very very few people...they are exceptionally lucky

romeobanglore: ok... I will leave now...but promise me that you won't get sad about the luck!

julietscity: ok...

julietscity: bye now

romeobanglore: bye honey

julietscity: bye