Yahoo Messenger: 12 May 2001 10:08 PM

Subject: If we keep silent, the harasser will be more courageous

julietscity: ok... I don't understand your English, I...

julietscity: Thank you for your trust and encourage me

romeobanglore: what I wanted to correct is your attitude...you said that you don't hate Mr. J...only pity him...and told that it might have been some of your faults also

romeobanglore: I wanted to correct that

julietscity: ok

romeobanglore: if you don't do anything, it will only encourage him to do so to more women

romeobanglore: and he might think you didn't have the courage

romeobanglore: you understand me?

julietscity: He knows my integrity and hot temper ... he might call me again ... if he ever intended to be wrong, he should be afraid of me.

julietscity: hmmm....yes

romeobanglore: so he might think it as a positive sign

julietscity: you know... we were good friends for a couple of years...and this is a notorious thing

romeobanglore: you know if he was a good friend for 2 years, he can never change...he has NEVER been a good friend

romeobanglore: no one will break into a good friend's room

julietscity: Can we stop here and never mention it or him again? Can you do that for me?

romeobanglore: he was never a good friend

romeobanglore: ok...but the bus driver in Germany and clothes in K city...I saw your anger...

romeobanglore: ok...I stop here now

julietscity: I was wrong ... I don't know how to make friends and distinguish who should be the bad guy ... when you scold Mr. J... I didn't feel sorry for him... I felt bad for myself... how can I Meet a bad guy and make friends with him for so long.

romeobanglore: see... this is an old generation woman's attitude...they always blame themselves for everything...but you should not

julietscity: At first, I didn't blame myself! !! !! After your judgment on this matter, I think ... will I make the wrong friend again and again? I should hide from making friends with others ... because I don't understand what others think ... and I look like an idiot.

romeobanglore: of course not

romeobanglore: you believe in people...I also do...it may not be a good character

julietscity: BUT... You did it, this is not the first time you have proven that you are right to me... someday you will say... Mr. J and Ashta or someone else??? and... some people I know...

julietscity: how can I trust these people so stupidly

romeobanglore: you know...once when I was traveling from Bangalore to home, I had a bad experience

romeobanglore: on the bus

romeobanglore: no, honey...it's because you are good and you think other people are also the same

romeobanglore: so don't worry anymore about past things

romeobanglore: ok?

romeobanglore: helloooooooooo

julietscity: No... I lost my confidence again... I didn't even know how to interview or stay in the same office as any man... I thought they had a bad idea for me... and I let myself be in danger

romeobanglore: after a while, you will stay the same ... but it will take some time

julietscity: hmmm...ok

julietscity: the bus story

romeobanglore: hmm

julietscity: I NEVER want a baby girl... it's dangerous for her... I don't allow!!!!!

romeobanglore: once when I was going home from here...I was sitting on the bus next to an old man of around 50 years old

romeobanglore: but baby boys are bad ... hard to control them

julietscity: He tried to be nice to you and stole your money?

romeobanglore: NO

romeobanglore: he was nice to me and asked me so many things...he offered me water to drink...

romeobanglore: I thought he was just like my uncle

julietscity: and...

romeobanglore: but in the night...I felt something moving on my legs

romeobanglore: on my thighs

julietscity: he touched your P?

romeobanglore: my hands were resting on my thighs and something was moving under there

romeobanglore: I opened my eyes, but didn't get up

romeobanglore: YES

romeobanglore: and at once jumped up and pushed him away...I couldn't sleep that whole night

julietscity: how did he do it... on the bus... there are many people there...

romeobanglore: I pushed him away from my seat...he pretended to be sleeping

julietscity: was that the first time a man wants to touch your P?

romeobanglore: people may not believe me if I made noise...because he was an old and well-dressed person

romeobanglore: that's the first time a man did that when I was sleeping

romeobanglore: in my school, there was another old man near our house, who wanted to do that

romeobanglore: I never allowed him also

julietscity: It's dangerous when people try to sleep in public places, and many things must happen ... it's very dangerous

romeobanglore: after that incident, I couldn't sleep on the bus for many weeks...but gradually things became normal

julietscity: since then, you will never sit next to any old man in nice dressed

romeobanglore: I have...but they were all nice people

romeobanglore: maybe not just the elder men ... maybe also the young men

julietscity: you know... all these sexual harassment incidents ... will only be shut down in the heart or have been abandoned by memory ... no one wants to mention it

romeobanglore: you know... If we keep silent, the harasser will be more courageous

julietscity: I know

julietscity: I don't want to remind it

romeobanglore: and I understand your feeling...we won't talk about it right now

romeobanglore: later, we have to find out a way to punish him

romeobanglore: so we don't talk about it now

julietscity: NO...

romeobanglore: no old man...no Mr. J

julietscity: when I saw how he took good care of his daughter, and how cute that daughter was...

romeobanglore: so what?

romeobanglore: he is cheating his daughter also

julietscity: you see... you start getting angry at everything...

romeobanglore: and you suddenly started to forgive everything!

julietscity: ok...we will do something on someday

romeobanglore: yes...the old man also...only you can sit next to me and touch my P

julietscity: If you know him and have worked with him ... you will know how he is...

romeobanglore: do you want me to say more about Mr. J?

julietscity: NO!! I don't forgive him ... that's why I don't want to make friends with him anymore...

romeobanglore: your friendship is not a big thing to him!

romeobanglore: ok...I am not going to say more about that

julietscity: no... he treasures all our friendships... with Kelvin and Jonson

romeobanglore: if he did, he would never have tried to break into your room...he is not sincere...

julietscity: I know

romeobanglore: he seems like a woman maniac to me

romeobanglore: ok...I stop this

julietscity: Alcohol is the worst thing that can make people do unreasonable things ... So you should stop drinking

romeobanglore: it's time for me to go to the gym

julietscity: Promise me not to drink under any circumstances...ok...

romeobanglore: I never felt like to assault a woman even after I drank

romeobanglore: and Mr. J was not drunk! he did it with a clear mind

julietscity: One day... you might do this... because you drink too much, treat the wrong girl as your loved one, and get pregnant after having sex with her

romeobanglore: I need time to stop drinking

julietscity: NO... I don't want to lose you because you drink too much and get alcoholism.

romeobanglore: I told you, even if I drink too much, I never feel like assaulting a girl

julietscity: I know you drink well ... but I can't.

julietscity: but you don't know when to stop

romeobanglore: I never get any bad sex feelings even if I drink

julietscity: hey... don't say so early ... maybe the girl will be happy to do it with you

romeobanglore: still...I won't approach a girl

julietscity: just quit drinking...that's all

romeobanglore: I need time

julietscity: when? How much time do you need?

romeobanglore: hey...I need to go now

julietscity: ok

romeobanglore: to the gym

julietscity: One day you will leave me behind because of drunkenness

romeobanglore: I will try to stop drinking

julietscity: I know...bye-bye now

romeobanglore: of course not!!!!!!!!!!!!

julietscity: bye now

julietscity: yes...you will

romeobanglore: bye

julietscity: mmmmmmmmmma...bye

romeobanglore: mmmmaaaa, bye

romeobanglore: hahaha...final bye

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