Yahoo Messenger: 10 May 2001 03:00 PM

Subject: sex can bring attachment between two people

romeobanglore: hello

julietscity: haha...you are here now

julietscity: so... is there anything wrong with the server connection?

julietscity: helloooooooooo...

romeobanglore: why?

julietscity: too slow from your answer

romeobanglore: I didn't get your words at first, that's why

romeobanglore: because I got all your lines in one stretch...

julietscity: ok...talk about Ashok and his girlfriend...what's her name?

romeobanglore: Fatma

julietscity: Mahendra also plans to work in Hungary, right?

romeobanglore: She is from Hungary, living in Germany

julietscity: Hungary? so she must look pretty

romeobanglore: no...he's going to Mexico

julietscity: wow...Mexico!!!

julietscity: so, that's Ojas. Will he go to Hungary in two months?

romeobanglore: Ojas's trip is not yet confirmed

romeobanglore: She looks like any other European

julietscity: oh... why don't you go to Germany on a business trip again?

julietscity: then, Fatma's hair should be black or brown

romeobanglore: I told you, I rejected the offer given by the company...at that time, I was thinking that I will go to the US soon

romeobanglore: well, it's black

romeobanglore: European's hair also can be black or brown

julietscity: no...you didn't tell me you might travel to Germany ... when?

julietscity: ok...

julietscity: How did Ashok meet Fatma?

romeobanglore: yes...that was 3 months back...the company asked me to go to Germany for 1 year, I rejected

romeobanglore: I told you that

julietscity: of course not, you didn't tell me...one year???

romeobanglore: In Germany, one of Ashok's colleagues introduced them to a party

julietscity: Salaries to Germany will be good, why don't you accept it?

romeobanglore: I told you of course! I didn't accept it because I thought I will go to the US soon

julietscity: so at the party... they met each other and fell in love very soon?

romeobanglore: no...their affair started first just for sex...and then they fell in love

julietscity: but 3 months ago ... we knew the situation in the US and knew it was impossible to go there, so we change it to Europe.

romeobanglore: She is single, about 32 years old

romeobanglore: not three months back

romeobanglore: 3 months back, we didn't know the situation was so serious

julietscity: she had sex before she met Ashok?

julietscity: during that time we talked about the opportunity to go to Europe

romeobanglore: she had a boyfriend long back...so maybe...I don't know

julietscity: When did you know about being sent to Europe for a year? Before you come here to see me in February?

romeobanglore: well...I don't exactly remember that...

julietscity: I meant... She had sex with Ashok when she first met? Then they fell in love...wow!!

romeobanglore: well...that was not in the first meeting...they saw each other many times before they had sex

julietscity: How did Ashok have first sex with someone he didn't love or even know well?

romeobanglore: She wanted sex...she initiated and asked Ashok

romeobanglore: and he agreed with

julietscity: hmmm... Some Hungarian women are open in sex

julietscity: but this was his first time, she had to teach him something, or just happened

romeobanglore: she is living in Germany...and she didn't ask him openly...she gave a hint and Ashok understood it

julietscity: Have you ever shared a sex experience with Ashok?

romeobanglore: well... not exactly the experiences...but the different things in sex, we discussed

romeobanglore: it was his first time...

romeobanglore: she liked to sit on top of him

romeobanglore: a thing we never did

julietscity: what's the hint? body language?

romeobanglore: no...in conversation, she said about her body needs...

julietscity: Ojas also? did the four of you discuss sexual experiences together?

romeobanglore: we 3

romeobanglore: me, Ashok and Ojas

romeobanglore: hahaha

romeobanglore: it was to clear our doubts and all

romeobanglore: not for anything else

julietscity: doubts?

julietscity: what are Ashok's doubts about sex?

romeobanglore: he had pain in his P when she sat on top of him...

romeobanglore: what to do for that was one of his doubts

julietscity: so...after that... Have they had sex many times?

romeobanglore: yes

romeobanglore: every weekend

julietscity: Does she like to sit on him and have sex?

romeobanglore: yes

romeobanglore: we never did that

julietscity: oh...I get it... she sat on top of him and controlled his body to get more enjoyment...

julietscity: I told you I didn't know what to do ... because doing that would feel pain

romeobanglore: he will lie down and she will sit on him with his P inside her P

julietscity: She must have a lot of sexual experience ... so she knows how to make men happy or enjoyable ... we also saw the sexual experience in Japanese videotapes, right? The women are doing the same...

julietscity: Hey... You have more experience than me... so, of course, I should lie down and you sit on me

romeobanglore: and he said she enjoyed the sex most by that way...he felt her P expanding and contracting

julietscity: so, does he also feel wonderful, great, excited and contented in this way?

romeobanglore: yes, he said so

julietscity: did they talk about 69?

romeobanglore: but wait...I never had so much experience in sex!

romeobanglore: my real experience is with you the only

julietscity: yes sir!! but you discussed it with your friends and collected more sexual experiences

julietscity: does Ashok know how to excite ladies by licking?

julietscity: as I know... not many people like to lick women's P

romeobanglore: yes...they did that too...but she was more focused on sitting on top of him

julietscity: hmmm... because she wants to take more control and enjoy sex

romeobanglore: in that way, she controls the whole action and so she can enjoy more

julietscity: but why does Ashok feel pain in that way? He should also feel good, right? Because he just needs to lie there, he doesn't need to do anything.

romeobanglore: no, he didn't know...she guided him

romeobanglore: who told you?

romeobanglore: because when she sits on top, the skin of the P may not move correctly, this may hurt the P

romeobanglore: and his balls too

julietscity: do you want my opinion about Ashok?

romeobanglore: yes...tell me

julietscity: The first sex will always stay in everyone's heart forever.

romeobanglore: yes...

julietscity: You also...Ashok also... You are still young, so sex takes all your heart, sometimes you think it's because of love

julietscity: You know the reason for my age and other cultural differences ... Ashok also knows Fatma's age and the most unlikely situation, but still... he had sex with her

julietscity: and treat it as love

romeobanglore: in that sense, our situation is different from their

julietscity: This is not love... and Fatma, she needs to make her body free to have sex, so... she wants him

romeobanglore: we started to love and then went to sex, right?

romeobanglore: they started sex and gradually went to love...

romeobanglore: sex can bring attachment between two people

romeobanglore: yes...but later she told him, "I started this for sex, but now I can't let you go away from me"

julietscity: Is Ashok planning to marry Fatma in the future?

romeobanglore: no, he hasn't...he asked me...I told him I can't help him, in this case,

julietscity: you see... does Fatma's family agree to let her arrange her marriage?

romeobanglore: she is a free woman

julietscity: what Ojas said? Did he certainly disagree?

romeobanglore: maybe after the age of 30 everyone becomes free

julietscity: NO...not everyone... Indian men and women can never be free in marriage choices

romeobanglore: Ojas asked Ashok not to go in my way because he knows the problems

romeobanglore: the society is very conservative here

julietscity: what would Ojas do if he found someone he loves in Hungary?

julietscity: He will only have sex with any girl, but he will never fall in love with them, right?

romeobanglore: Ojas told that he may find himself in the same situation someday...then we should tell him not to go that way

julietscity: hahahah...

romeobanglore: no...he told, sex will create attachment...so be careful while having sex

julietscity: so...be careful... don't have sex with me too much ... otherwise, you will regret

romeobanglore: why you laugh?

julietscity: because Ojas is also afraid of falling in love with foreigners

romeobanglore: I already am attached to you!

romeobanglore: but no regrets

julietscity: Has Ashok considered having a baby with Fatma?

romeobanglore: she doesn't want any baby

julietscity: that's impossible!!!! she will want a baby after 1or 2 years

romeobanglore: she is not that kind...she doesn't want a baby now

romeobanglore: she cares about her career

julietscity: She's only 32 years old ... she might have a baby in the future ... let's see

romeobanglore: hmm...let's see

julietscity: career?

julietscity: she is also an engineer?

romeobanglore: yes...she is a software professional

julietscity: great

romeobanglore: hahaha... I personally think secretaries are the greatest!

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julietscity: Is Ashok planning to go to Europe with any consultant now?

julietscity: especially to Germany

romeobanglore: he has plans...but things are not easy

julietscity: Tell your company to arrange for him to work there for a year too... if Ojas refuses to work in Hungary or Germany ... let Ashok go there...

romeobanglore: hey...they are calling me for lunch

julietscity: ok...your lunch

romeobanglore: no...they are in different groups

julietscity: you need a good meal and have fun with your friends ... especially Ashok

romeobanglore: hahahaha...what to do...I don't take breakfast

romeobanglore: when will we chat again?

julietscity: ok...gogogo...

julietscity: after one hour?

julietscity: but you must have work to do

julietscity: ok...c u later

romeobanglore: after 1 hour...work can wait!

julietscity: ok

julietscity: c u

julietscity: bye now