Yahoo Messenger: 10 April 2001 11:28 PM

Subject: Destiny and opportunity

julietscity: NO!!! Contact only these existing consultants

romeobanglore: ok...but still these people also need time to do it...only one consultant has actually processed my papers...

julietscity: If these consultants still can't find your job in the US, then... don't wait too long... not worth the wait... wasting time... we have to think of other ways.

romeobanglore: I don't know whether to trust him

julietscity: which one? The guy who asked for the C language? or the guy who forgot to contact?

romeobanglore: we will think of all ways...I am focusing on Europe...I have asked all my friends to refer me to all the consultants they know

romeobanglore: no...the oldest one

romeobanglore: I signed a contract with him in January

julietscity: why I feel hopeless...

romeobanglore: don't lose hope...we will live together

julietscity: NO

romeobanglore: YES

julietscity: Time is not enough for me

romeobanglore: I know...

romeobanglore: you try to get a job now...

julietscity: If I find a job after May 7... I will decide to stay here... then you can stay in the company or go to another Telecom company in Bangalore... then, come to me during your holidays.

romeobanglore: no...

romeobanglore: maybe for 4-5 months...after that, I will definitely get a job somewhere

julietscity: You know my experience... if I find a job because they want my background... the company won't let me go after 3 months or work only in the short term...

julietscity: If I resign after 3 months, this short experience will not be trusted and no one will hire me in the future...

romeobanglore: 4-5 months?

julietscity: In small to medium-sized enterprise... they will doubt my loyalty to job hunting

romeobanglore: but you can later say some family reasons...

julietscity: At my age ... if I go for a part-time job, I don't know how to hide my experience ... if I go to a restaurant or do odd jobs for a few hours ... they will also doubt my attitude and think I'm troublesome

romeobanglore: you don't have to hide your experience...people will be glad to hire you because you have a lot of years experience!

julietscity: I saw some advertisements in newspapers looking for my experiences...the companies are big and famous...

julietscity: How do I write my resume to apply for a part-time restaurant job?

romeobanglore: join them...after some months, you can tell them you have some serious family problems...can you do that?

julietscity: Or, as I did before, go to be a part-time tutor?

romeobanglore: no...not in any restaurant...join the big company

julietscity: No...I can't do that. There are no family problems...

romeobanglore: but you can say to the company like that

julietscity: My grandma is dead ... no one will die after 3-5 months

romeobanglore: no...no one is going to die...you say you are moving to another place along with your husband

julietscity: after 3-5 months... Do you know what month it is? It's July or September...!!!! We don't have time to plan anything in 2001.

romeobanglore: I know...our plans have to postpone...

julietscity: NO...you are wrong!! There is no such thing as living together...

romeobanglore: for one year?

julietscity: I will stay here ... and only ... as you said ... "move to another place with your husband" ... then will I go abroad with you to the country where you work? Do you have to risk marrying me instead of just living together?

romeobanglore: so tell me...what can I do now?

romeobanglore: and all the things we talked about the parents and all?

julietscity: We can't do anything... Destiny and opportunity... force us to accept their arrangements

julietscity: yes... Regarding parents ... all problems will not happen...

romeobanglore: you know...it will be against my parents wish, if I marry you now

julietscity: No...you don't have to against your parents... Forget marriage, you can come to visit me or we can take a holiday in a third country

julietscity: and then...gave me a baby...I won't ask you to marry me

romeobanglore: we will never be happy

romeobanglore: doing so...

julietscity: We also are not happy now...

romeobanglore: yes...we try to change things but

romeobanglore: Can't you live with me in 2002?

julietscity: The way we used to plan ... not a good idea ... because we tried our best

julietscity: If you promise me to give me a child in 2002, I can live with you

romeobanglore: I didn't try our best!

julietscity: can you do that for me? That's what I need from you.

julietscity: if we can't get married

romeobanglore: I never said any date for the baby!

julietscity: The date to have a baby is the date I set .. 2002 is the year I have a baby

romeobanglore: I don't really know

romeobanglore: I am going now...

julietscity: yes, run away...

julietscity: have a good dinner with Ojas

romeobanglore: I don't know what to say

julietscity: and Mahendra

julietscity: keep it in mind...and we will see...after May 7

romeobanglore: I will try my best whatever happens......because I love you so much

romeobanglore: ok

julietscity: I love you tooooooooo

julietscity: c u

julietscity: bye

romeobanglore: bye