Yahoo Messenger: 13 December 2000 11:14 PM

Subject: Money is a symbol of pride

romeobanglore: helloooooooo

romeobanglore: hahaha...don't think about those now...I feel very sure that I can get some way to meet you before that

julietscity: how come?

romeobanglore: I will get a letter from my new company or consultant

julietscity: Are people different? The capital is New Delhi, it should be a modern city like Bangalore

julietscity: Why are you so sure? You didn't tell me more about the new job ...

romeobanglore: the language is different, the place is different...there is a lot of difference

julietscity: okokok...different...even you go there... Are you also a stranger over there? So you don't know how to take care of me, right?

julietscity: "before that"?

romeobanglore: I have not decided, right...I will ask all consultants about this...I will go with the one who agrees to

julietscity: when?

julietscity: NO!!

romeobanglore: within some days

julietscity: We can't choose a job based on the reason they provide a visa certificate ... this is not important ... I can go abroad

romeobanglore: ok...I will consider that also

julietscity: and... choose the consultants who can give you great work and faster time

romeobanglore: I'll consider all

romeobanglore: because I think the consultant will offer almost the same salary

julietscity: now... Only after I know the city you might go to, then I start looking for my school and find a bank loan for me.

julietscity: Making sure the cities you might go to is very important to me ...

romeobanglore: why bank loan? we have a deal, right?

julietscity: It takes my time, every university will be different, maybe without any computer art or ...

romeobanglore: hellloooooo

julietscity: because I can repay my sister at a lower borrowing rate and keep some money when I need to pay the first-semester tuition

romeobanglore: hahaha...there is no rate with me

romeobanglore: it is your money also...why you don't feel like that?

julietscity: I don't understand

julietscity: at first, we don't have that much money for us, right?

romeobanglore: you don't have to pay anything to me...my money is your money! you have to feel like that

romeobanglore: hahaha (I will charge lower than a bank!)

romeobanglore: once I get a job...I think we could get enough money

julietscity: no...I am talking about the first-semester tuition...

julietscity: we don't have much money now...

julietscity: Because now I don't know which city you will go ... so I don't know the details that can be found in that city ... but if I have to apply for a long-term visa to learn longer English in the US ... at first, loan money from a bank is necessary

julietscity: Our bank can help people go abroad to continue their education and loan for 5 years ... but need to be repaid monthly

romeobanglore: but you have to promise me that you will never see my money as another person's money...ok?

julietscity: Do you understand my explanation?

julietscity: but...hey...your money is not another person's money... It's your money ... yes. You pay for my tuition and take care of me and everything ... So, I am very grateful for this, of course, it is your money ... I tell you, I don't know how to ask for money from men, especially my husband 's money.

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romeobanglore: hey, that was bad!

julietscity: connection problem?

romeobanglore: I think we are together...and the money I make is for both of us!

romeobanglore: you should never appreciate it...because you are my family

julietscity: I know...but you are not only yourself...we have to think of other family members.

julietscity: I can't take all your money as my money

julietscity: and you should keep some money for yourself

romeobanglore: ok...not all money...but WE decide everything...not ME

romeobanglore: none for me...I don't want

julietscity: ok...keep some money for ourselves

romeobanglore: if your family needs some money, then also we can give them

romeobanglore: how much to keep for ourselves and all...you decide

julietscity: no... they can survive ... and my father can take care of them...

julietscity: I don't want you to repay my debt ... maybe I borrowed from you ... maybe you won't charge my loan interest rate

Yahoo! Messenger: romeobanglore has logged back in. (2000/12/13 at PM 10:00)

julietscity: I don't know why I have to insist that...

julietscity: But without me ... you can live a luxurious life in the US

romeobanglore: see...you still don't regard the money I make is your money...I feel hurt on that

julietscity: NONONO...

romeobanglore: you are mistaken...if there was no you...why should I go to the US?

romeobanglore: yes, I feel hurt

julietscity: You will go to the US for other reasons ... but you will go to the US for sure

julietscity: honey...please...

julietscity: We don't like talking about money ... because it hurts feeling

julietscity: I don't know how to overcome the money relationship between lovers

romeobanglore: I might go to the US, but lonely and bad

julietscity: it should be a great issue for me...

julietscity: I was educated by a girls' school to be an independent woman, so ... the same is true for financial independence

romeobanglore: but now... I have hope and expectation

romeobanglore: as I have never felt in my life

romeobanglore: yes...that maybe because we are not yet husband and wife...

julietscity: My family won't help me repay my debt ... my sister helps me because she has some dowry and she believes me, I will become rich one-day

romeobanglore: I sincerely wish that you treat me like that...... because I don't want to feel that I am giving you money to stay with me...IT IS NOT LIKE THAT...we are one, together

julietscity: maybe...to be a husband and wife...the money also will become a big problem between us.

julietscity: yes...we are

romeobanglore: I wish to give you money not because I know you will pay me back...I feel that we are together in all ways...money is just a minor thing

julietscity: hahaha...a minor thing

romeobanglore: you know when being together, there is everything to share..... joy, sorrow, everything...

julietscity: remember you told me ... you don't want to be a slave to money

romeobanglore: money is nothing compared to you

julietscity: I agree

romeobanglore: yes...I am no slave for money

romeobanglore: I don't wish to have money for myself

romeobanglore: whatever I have, money or stone or flower or whatever... I wish you have a right to have it

julietscity: ok...maybe when we live together...I will think in a different way...but the loan from a bank for the first-semester tuition...I think it's necessary for us

romeobanglore: you must be able to talk like that it is yours also

romeobanglore: maybe...

romeobanglore: never ever come and say to me " can you give me some money?"

romeobanglore: you should say "I want money!"

romeobanglore: hahahaha

julietscity: NO... I never ask for that money like that ... I never ask my mother for such money like that, either.

romeobanglore: but you will never have to say any of those because you will keep our money

julietscity: I make money myself

julietscity: hmm...

romeobanglore: then I might come and ask " can I have some money?"

julietscity: because if you don't give money ... I will call my sister and ask her to remit me some

romeobanglore: nonononon...you didn't get me correctly...you have no reason to ask like that because you have the right to it

romeobanglore: why you trust your sister's money more than ours?????

julietscity: hahaha...no... I will keep some money in your wallet and I will check your wallet every day

romeobanglore: I won't keep the money...you have to keep it....and give me some...

julietscity: but... It's really hard for me to ask you for money ... even if you are my husband...

romeobanglore: check for what? to see whether I spent the money? and then ask me "which pub did you go today? hahahaha

julietscity: no...yes... You will tell me how you spend money ... I will give you enough money to use

romeobanglore: why? I don't understand that....you are independent...you are not depending on me...but when we live together, we have to share everything like lovers...not just like friends

julietscity: yes...but... Money is a symbol of pride ... Do you know what I mean? Every wife knows how to get money from her husband ... but knows that rights and use rights are different.

romeobanglore: thanksmy sweet secretary...the most beautiful and smartest secretary