Sahiba: I was woken up at 5 in the morning. As today was finally my wedding and I had lost all my sanity, weird thoughts were invading my mind and I was really overthinking. What if all of this a a sham, Kabir is not how he is showing, my super famous in laws breaking into my marriage and god knows what, I had started to pace inside my room and tears of frustration were present in my eyes. It was then my nani came into the room.

Nani "puttar ki hoya?"

Sahiba : Nani ji meinu bahut dar lag reahiya hai! Kuch galat hogaya toh

Nani: Na beta, darne di ki lor. Jo babaji da hukam (order) hai na woh ho kai rahega. Aur yaad rakhi woh kisi ka bura nahi karte. Rabh uton (upar) dei (sei) jodiyaan banake bhej tei hain. Aggar tere jodi Rabh nei Kabir nal baniye hai na teh twanu (tum dono ko) ek (one) hone sei koi nahi rook sakta. Aur rahi Baat kabir kei tere nanka (maternal) aur dadka (paternal) nei ussi janta hai, tu khush rahegi.

Sahiba : thank you nani, abh acha lagraha hai.

Naniji: koi ni puttar, tu Yeh yellow suit Mein ready hoja, tenu vattna (beasn, mik, haldi mixture) lagana hai aur chura chadhan hai. (red bangles)

Sahiba: ji aye bass path(sikh puja) karke aye.

Naniji : okay puttar ham wait kar rahi hai.

Sahiba : japji sahib ( morning sikh path) karne kei badh I got ready and went to the hall where everyone was waiting. Kabir's ceremony was taking place in another hall.

I was made to wear flower jewelry, as per traditions, male members were holding the chadar under my head. Nani, Dadi, Chachi, Mami, Bhabhi Sehej, Simran and my cousin Preet made the rangoli ( i forgot ki punjabi tei ki khede ni sorry) From the elder members to the younger all applied the vatna, then mamu and mami made me wear the chura soaked in milk and rose petals, veerji tied the kaleiras and bhabhi tied the gana (sacred thread woren by the bride, groom and all the members of the house involved in the wedding) .

Ardas was done, mami had filled the ghadoli from the near by gurudwara. ( water is filled from A sacred place like gurudwara by maternal aunt of the bride in a decorated matki called ghadolil, it is used by the bride to take bath and wash the vatna:ofc normal water is also used with it to take bath)

After that I went to the room to get ready. As I was a close knit function, I wanted to keep it simple to I got ready on my own with the help of bhabhi, sehej, simran and preet.

Meanwhile in Kabir section the same thing took place except that Kanwar and Kanan striped his upper half bear and sent tonnes of pictures to Sahiba.

Kabir was ready in his sherwani looking like a true warrior prince and a lion. Karam dadu tied him a beautiful pagg. But now the question arrised who will tie his shera and kalgi ( broach attached to the pugdi) . Kabir was sad that he had no sisters while they were. Deciding how to go about the ritual : Sehej, Simran and Kimran entered their hall dancing on the 🥁 dhol. They pulled everyone for the dance.

After dancing what these 3 girls did made kabir's family think that finally thei kabir will get love from everyone..

Sehej : haww hamare hoti hui apne rasam shuru bhi kardi. Hamare koi feelings nahi hai 😯🥺

Simran : Kal tak toh bada choti behen kar rahi the aur Ajj jab chotti behen ka hakk dena tha toh rafuchakar han? 😜🙈

Kimran: Vaise Baat toh theek kahi hai in hon ni, meini bhi veerji bulaya par mujhe toh paraya kar diya.

Sehej : par koi ni hamm bade besharam hai hame farak nahi padta,

Kimran :exactly ham khud hi agaye.

Simran: abhi keliye ham ladke vali. Lekin jad kalichiri (ring given by from to his brides sisters) deni hogi na toh ham for Sahiba kei side hijayeni.

* hearing this everone laughed. *

Sehej : tied Kabir's kalgi on the pagdi

Kimran: applied surma (little kajal) on this eyes.

Simran :ttied his sehra

Kabir huggged the 3 of them...

After this three of them went back to check the preparations on the bride side.

Karam dadu did the ardas. The baaraat started and went towards the gurudwara.

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On reaching the gurudwara:

The grooms side was welcomed by Sahiba's family and fed with snacks and all, after which they went upstairs, bent in front of babaji(matha teekya) took blessings and gave the rumala ( clothes of gurugranth sahib ji) to gyaniji.

Kabir sat in front of gurugranth sahib ji, kimran removed this his sehra and kalgi as in the gurudwarda there is only one king that is god ans everyone has to bow in front of him...

After this enterd the one for which kabir was waiting dearly.... And let me tell you her entrance made his heart stop.

🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺

(haldi outfit)

(flower jewelry)

(chura).

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